Big Coyote Energy

The problem with drama isn't that it exists. Drama is drama, it sucks, it's annoying, it happens. This we know. Think about the scene as a conveyer belt. Something happens at some point on the belt, people freak out, yell, scream, divide, do whatever it is that they do, and then they move on. As new people get into the scene (or hop onto the conveyer belt) they begin to hear bits and pieces of the old stories and the old drama, but they can't access the old part of the conveyer belt. They can't see the actual happenings for themselves. But they begin to form opinions based on hearsay or partial facts, or worse, get shrouded under the influence wings of the people who have "caused problems" before and are changing the stories to make themselves no longer the villain. I have read no less than 3 writings today alone on issues that are (to the best of my knowledge, and my knowledge is pretty fucking extensive) absolute idiocy at worst and grossly misinformed a...

What are your views on the ethics of kink? "The difference between assault and BDSM is consent." That entire sentence sums up my views on the ethics of kink and BDSM. Consenting adults can engage in whatever behaviors and activities they prefer, as long as their activities do not impact persons who have not given their consent. There are fetishes that some people have that other people may not be into. I am a very "your kink is not my kink, but you are welcome to enjoy your kinks" kind of person. There are some kinds of play i'm not comfortable witnessing so i will remove myself from the area so others can continue their fun.

Winter Fire was like a blur. It came and went so fast and i miss it a lot. I can't believe it's been a week already. It's like something that roared past that i got to touch for a fleeting few moments and like that it's gone. Now i'm just looking forward to Fusion, Fet Fest and a few other events (kinky and non-kinky) we're planning on attending. *As per usual, some of this may be paraphrased or out of general order.  If you were involved in some of this or are a close friend, please PM me and give me the correct order of events. Friday Friday Daddy, Israfela and Liberteeny arrived at the overflow hotel around 6 o'clock. We dropped everything at the room, while Daddy took the car back to the metro to park it. We hit registration and vending for a bit and then went back to the room to shower and get sexy. I had a volunteer shift at 9 as SOR monitor in Sex O Rama. I put on my sexy see through red and black dress, black garters and striped bla...

Flux is the word that fits me. I sit here, 3 days away from my 1 year anniversary of being collared to Kamm. 7 days from the start of Winter Fire. Sitting on my couch, watching Family Guy on my day off and waiting for a card reader to arrive in the mail so i can get some *legit* work done. Also, not sure if journal entry or erotica. Might be both... The past year has uncovered a lot of things for me. Some good, some bad, some wholly awesome, some that can go eat a bag of dicks. There are parts of me that are afraid of what i want to do, what turns me on, what i fantasize about. There are other parts of me that are turned on by what i fear. I fear the escalation. If i think some of the stuff i want to do now is entirely fucked up, what will i be doing in 5 years, 10 years, 20 years? I think about my kinks every day. I actually have a libido. I actually want sex. I feel like this has fixed me, for lack of a better term. I was broken before. Crappy libido, didn't think about s...

It cracks me up that my most viewed entry is my feeldoe dildo review. It's my most searched keyphrase too. This entry is for your questions on the feeldoe dildo. Got questions? Post 'em here. I'm quite familiar with the toy (i own one) and can help you make your strapless strap-on experience better. ;)