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My birthday is around Thanksgiving. I don't really like it, but it isn't something i've got any form of control over. V-day conception means a Thanksgivingish birthday. Quite a few people in my life and family suffer the same fate. But you know what is pretty cool? I get to see my family every year on or around my birthday because the turkey day is a big deal for them. This year, by dessert, we saw at least 55 people through the door. I don't really like turkey. But you know what? Every year my family also has ham for me and the other turkey naysayers (gobblesayers?). I chow down on that ham like the puppy i am. And really, who is going to forsake delicious ham in favor of turkey. Hammmmmmmmm. This is the first time i've seen both my parents in person since i came out to them about poly. And no one freaked out. They bold told me they loved me. The written message in my birthday card almost made me cry. The good tears i mean. Daddy is sleeping next to me, finally not...

So... Fusion. That happened. It happened hard. And this is gonna be loooong and disjointed like most of my entries. Others seem to be more efficient in getting their feelings out. Reading their experiences, their scenes, their torment, their fears, it has an energy. I'm not a person for "energies" or "feelings" but something in me is tied to camp. I left part of myself there, and i found parts of myself that have been buried for a long, long time. Parts of me i believe only Kamm has ever known to exist. The parts of me that truly know fear, panic and exhaustion.  Fusion really was a good event for me, but there were parts i would prefer to never experience again, namely the storm. Friday ; On the way up to Ramblewood we stopped at a Tobacco outlet and a great dollar store to pick up some cigars for Kamm and a cooler for drinks. And i finally replaced my knife. Daddy and i arrived around 11am met Bettie_Rage at registration.  Friday it was over 90 degrees. N...

I guess last weekends theme was "Fuck it, i'll try it!" Not even joking. I started off the weekend friday DCDungeon for Fet101. CurtisMercury was demoing floggers and whips. I've tried floggers before. Big, suede, leather floggers curtsey of Silver-Switch at DOWF. Curtis had with him a signal whip. The difference between a signal whip and a bull whip is a handle. A signal whip is braided all the way to the end. A bull whip has a distinct, gripable handle. It changes the way you use the whip. In a signal whip, the fall (end piece) is usually braided into the leather. The falls are replaceable, but with a signal whip they have to be braided back in. In a bull whip, the fall is a separate piece that is easy to switch out. This is easy if you're playing rough enough with other partners to start drawing blood. The falls are often made out of leather or nylon, neither of which are able to be completely disinfected once contaminated with blood or other body fluids....

Just keep digging, just keep digging. There are 18,000 married gay and lesbian couples in California and at least 131,000 nationwide according to the 2010 census, conducted before New York state legalized same-sex marriage in July. Rick Santorum says he'll try to unmarry all of them if he's elected president. Once the U.S. Constitution is amended to prohibit same-gender marriages, "their marriage would be invalid," the former Pennsylvania senator said Dec. 30 in an NBC News interview. "We can't have 50 different marriage laws in this country," he said. "You have to have one marriage law." The comments didn't attract nearly as much attention as Santorum's recent invocation of his Catholic faith to denounce government support for birth control, prenatal testing and resource conservation - which, in the last case, he attributed to President Obama's "phony theology." But his declared intention to nullify past as wel...

And it just keeps on coming. March is officially WTF Rick? Month. It's been declared, try to change it, i dare you! Also, regular updates intermittently as well because no one can stand that much Santorum.

Click on the picture for the associated article.  I feel exactly the same way GOP. Stay out of my vagina.

Yeah, i went there. I'm not a staunch democrat, i'd actually vote for a nice moderate republican, but those don't exist lately. So have some insulting memes. I also got to the point where i deleted my POF, OKC and CM accounts. Done with considering vanilla partners and idots (via CM). Also updated twitter: @eroticwetatomic

Another article detailing the reasons we can't have nice things . This article was originally posted by the Daily Kos. The link above will link you to the full article. You really can't even make this shit up. Seriously. Conservatives suggest defeating birth control by calling it 'abortion.' No, really. At CPAC, some top conservative minds (stay with me here) got together to try to decide how to defeat the previously not terribly controversial law mandating insurance cover contraception. Their conclusion? Conservatives should just lie about it : Stop talking about birth control. That was the key message from some of the most prominent leaders of America’s anti-abortion movement, speaking Friday at the Conservative Political Action Conference. During a talk on how to advance the movement through messaging, an all-female panel discussed the Obama administration’s birth-control-coverage mandate and suggested that the best way to defeat it is by calling it an “a...

This concept is something I see all the time.  Not just with swingers but with almost any single man I talk to.  If I am not their cup of tea (or more usually, if I am not interested in them sexually) they always go for the "other hot girls" question. "Do you have any hot friends that you think would like me/would be interested in me/you could introduce me to?" Insert any variation of that question here.  Somehow, guys think it's a good idea to pester her about her single female friends, or her hot swinger female friends.  If you have any respect for yourself or the girl you're with. Don't ever ask one of these questions. Now I shall explain to you why you should not do this.  It's insulting. Also, girls aren't really into setting their good friends up with creepos they don't know very well.  Introducing "you" to one of her girlfriends means she's vouching for you; that you aren't creepy, or a douche bag or an ass.  She ...

For those of you in the United States, a major holiday is coming up; Independence Day. Please remember to drink responsibly, sleep somewhere if you have to. DUI's aren't worth it.  Also please remember to make sure noise-reactive pets are locked up safe and sound.  Leash slips and escapees because of firework scares are frequent for this holiday.  Animals get scared and bolt, going much farther than they normally would because of fear.  Animals generally don't know the way back home.  If you've got a noise-reactive animal you're worried about schedule a vet appointment for some sedatives or try one of the products on the market made for this very issue; the thunder vest. We'll be back to your regularly scheduled sex commentary on Tuesday. Have a good holiday everyone!

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I was so proud of the logo that I got some EWA swag from my cafe press shop to do some quality testing. I've never actually ordered anything from cafe press. Picture is of actual products, they are enjoyable. I use the bag for my ...toys when I need to take them places with me and I'm not sure where I'm going to put the bumper sticker. I'm making real entries soon, I just have total ADD. T-shit giveaway! Don't forget!

Screen shot from American Dad So... it's the 22nd and we're all still here. Tisk tisk tisk Harold, I'm pretty sure it's a sin in your ridiculous religion to lie about the coming of Jesus. Now Harold Camping has run off. Probably out of shame or perhaps he just wants us to think he was the only one raptured... I'm not buying your bullshit Harold, because it doesn't pass the bullshit test. If it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck and walks like a duck, you can be sure that you're a crock pot. I made rapture cookies from regular chocolate chip cookies, you are all welcome to one, or four, since you SURVIVED THE RAPTURE! :D And, if you like commemorative t-shirts, you will love these: Rapture Survivalware .

It disgusts me that one human being can spread so much hate, idiocy and bigotry all in the name of "God." I find it difficult to articulate the absolute repulsion I feel for people like this.  Seriously, my skin is crawling having to even think of words to make this entry. I think the only people that make me feel even worse are the Westboro Baptist Church (Fred Phelps) but he is such a fucking nut job that I can kind of get over that. But Harold Camping has his own radio show that I sometimes pass while looking for NPR.  According to Mr. Camping, the world is going to end on May 21, 2011 (which is also D's birthday encase anyone is wondering, srsly) because of "the gays." As if "the gays" are a reason for anything to happen (except for sexy parties). Fundamentalist Christians just cherry pick and rose-glass their way through the bible, browsing along like a choosy mom in the supermarket picking only the most obscure items in the store. Then bringing...

This thing is nearing 1000 page views soon, I was thinking about giving away a tee-shirt for the 1003 page vie w. Thats right one thousand and third page view.  Send me an email (eroticwetatomic@gmail.com) with a screenshot of the blog. If this thing allows multiple people to see the same number then the first person to email me will receive the kiriban.  Girls or guys tee (guys pictured to the left). Girls tee is a girls fit.  International is an option but it will be send USPS probably with no tracking.. We'll figure it out. It's the least I can do for those who actually take the time to view this blog.  Thank you all! PS; the counter is at the very bottom ;)

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I encountered this today.. I joined a website called SwingerZoneCentral to check out (it was highly recommended on the swingersboard so I made an account and filled out a profile.  You figure that this would end as how my usual new profile making ends--with lots of pictures of dicks, and lots of offered cell numbers for some quick blow jobs. Basically I get to lol around and delete a bunch of emails from guys who can't read. Among the dick pix and the cell numbers, I got a message from this guy. This guy takes the fucking cake. This is word for word the email I received: "Just a couple points cheater. You keep mentioning the age range you desire but nowhere in your proifle do you state your age, moron. That may wouldn't you think? Duh!!!!!!!!!! I am really tired of cheating sluts being on this swinger site. You are not a swinger. Swin-gers are either committed couples or singles who only swing within a certain group of people. Maybe you should get permission fr...

This entry is due to the fact that I have had two online inquiries from no less than two men wondering if I would enjoy making their unwitting wives a cuckold...meaning fucking them behind their wives' back. Let it be understood that I am writing this from the perspective of a woman. A woman who has been propositioned by men looking to cheat on their wives/girlfriends, not a woman who has ever had ambitions to cheat on her man. To those of you looking to get some sex on the side. No judgement. However, it does gall me to see the amount of "help me cheat on my wife" posts on Craigslist from guys who just aren't getting what they need at home. Obviously it's sleazy, dishonest, and a major turn off for any gal out there trying to find an honest fella. But it bothers me mostly because I can't relate. It doesn't take a psychological hack like Dr. Phil to see that these aren't men that are satisfied with their relationship. Obvious shit out of the way,...

I have profiles on several websites where I spend some time looking for partners. Some of these sites seem to be more notorious for what-the-fuckery than others. The worst offender (in my my eyes) has to be okcupid, but I do get this on every other site I belong to, just not in such numbers or with such shear stupidity accompanying it. MEN. I'm going to give you some fantastic advice for trying to find single female swingers, or just for talking to girls over the internet in general. Gather 'round, pull up a chair and get nice and comfy. We're going to be here for a while. On these great websites that allow complete strangers to come together for various activities there are things called profiles. These profiles give you a ton of biased information about their author. Men, you should take the four minutes it will take you to READ THE ENTIRE THING.  This is my number one pet-peeve.  We girls tend to be pretty forthcoming with the information that we'd like other p...