Big Coyote Energy

It's gonna get fucked, i don't *really* have a choice*. And it isn't just going to get fucked, it's going to get raped. Or something. I don't know. All i know is i want to make this experience as easy as possible. Considering the last time i had something in my butt that wasn't my plug was probably 2011, i'm out of practice. Things i know: * Lube * Lube * Lube * Patience * Lube * Relax * Lube * oh and lube. * maybe more lube * enema? * lube * also, lube The 12-15 times i've tried to have buttsex the way 'you're supposed' to has always been fucking uncomfortable. My ass doesn't stretch, or i'm not doing it right. Forplay - check. Relaxed-check. Sometimes alcohol (on my end) - check. Butplug - check. I have TWO buttplugs in two different sizes! One that takes me 30 minutes to get in. It's an NJOY MEDIUM. It isn't like im trying to stuff the [Great American Challenge][http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Great-Americ...

This article was written by Silk, a friend of mine. Daddy and i had just been discussing some of these exact issues yesterday on our way to work. Silk has given me permission to post the article he wrote (thank you). Please keep in mind when attending parties, events, etc, what the rules are for dealing with rape, sexual assault and other consent violations at the venue are. If you aren't sure then ask. You have a right to know how your safety is being looked at by the people hosting parties.  Why Would Somebody Not Report Sexual Assault/Rape In The Scene? There are many, many reasons why people may not report such terrible physical and emotional violations of their person. Adding that it happened with somebody from or in the scene makes it even more difficult. In the vanilla world alone 54% of sexual assaults are not reported to the police. (RAINN, 2012) It is estimated 97% of perpetrators won't spend a day in jail. (RAINN, 2012) So why not report both i...

So, the theme of Fusion is apparently rape. I've got sex on the brain. General Eat and sleep Use ALL the sunscreen. Get NONE of the sunburn! Swim Spend time with all my partners (Daddy, CurtisMercury, Lynk and HarshJudgement. That's right, i lumped you in :p ). And new potential play partners :3 Scenes Some kind of frisking or military or police related thing. The idea of this is so absolutely hot. Some rough body play, restraint, forced sexytimes. Yup. *currently being negotiated x2* Being co-topped. Fits into just about anything. Puppy play. Lots. Maybe with other puppies. I love playing with other puppies and littles. Needle play, if i'm up for it :3 Partial suspensions where my chest is *not* the main suspension point. Think legs, hips, etc. I will not be doing any full rope suspensions. I may consider certain types of partials not listed here, but i don't really feel like passing out again. Oh, and all the rope. Taken at knife point. Getting rapey ...

I've had a lot of people, anyone from close friends to new acquaintances ask me about how Kamm and i manage a successful poly relationship. I can't help but smirk, at least on the inside because i don't consider myself successfully polyamours. SHOCKER. I know, read on, there is a good explanation. I consider myself functionally non monogamous. This is about my relationships with non monogamy, i will try to get Kamm to write something as well. This will have a lot of me/i in it. This is because the best way for me to educate others is to talk about my experiences, things i know inside and out. For most people, either you are open to non monogamy, or you aren't. People who are predisposed to non monogamy can make monogamous commitments and keep them, but they may not necessarily be ecstatic about it. It's about self control. This is not what this writing is about. Basic Points; Non monogamy really isn't *that* much more different than monogamy, it...

I was linked to this wonderful list of blogs made by Red Region Inferno blog. It's got a list of 45 wonderful blogs to read that all seem very sexy. I haven't gotten a chance to go through them yet but at this time of year, it won't happen until the end of January anyway. So while i'm off getting tied up under the Christmas tree, you can either do the same or read something sexy. Happy Holidays everyone, it doesn't matter what you celebrate, just have fun doing it. Don't forget to get under the mistletoe ;)