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Dear gender identity, Hi. It's me. It's been a while since we talked. I know i've been kind of standoffish lately, but that's mostly because of you. I don't know what to do with you. Can you maybe, get a grip? I always thought i was straight. Then there were girls i liked. Then there were non-gender-binary people that i like. But mostly i like men, and by like, i mean fuck. I don't usually care what they identify as, but biocock (cis-cock?) is basically the top tier of what i need to be fulfilled sexually. So... Help me out here. Am i straight? Am i pansexual? Do i have to give a fuck? Sincerely, Management.

30 Days of Kink: Day 6

30 Days of Kink: Day 6 Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. Uhm... I guess they have to do with pony play mostly. I've been talking to @Atticant way too much and he's got me all intrigued about breeding in pony play. I think it would be incredibly hot to be tied down and hobbled and force "bred" by a male human pony stallion. At this time, i don't know any real stallions that i could play this way with though. Guess the other stuff is pretty standard, gangbang stuff, stranger encounters. Stuff that is actually realizable now that i have my very own "stud farm." Haha, love it.

KateHarding.net's "Guest Blogger Starling: Schrödinger’s Rapist: or a guy’s guide to approaching strange women without being maced"

I found this article some months ago and was recently reintroduced to it. My last entry had to do with women related things, let's focus on what goes on inside the brains of us very lovey ladies and woman-identified peoples.  The full original article can be found here on KateHarding.net and I recommend every single person that comes to my blog go over there and read it (or read excerpts here). Gentlemen. Thank you for reading. Let me start out by assuring you that I understand you are a good sort of person. You are kind to children and animals. You respect the elderly. You donate to charity. You tell jokes without laughing at your own punchlines. You respect women. You like women. In fact, you would really like to have a mutually respectful and loving sexual relationship with a woman. Unfortunately, you don’t yet know that woman—she isn’t working with you, nor have you been introduced through mutual friends or drawn to the same activities. So you must look fur...

Those Crazy Vaginas

This is an important, albeit rarely mentioned issue that I hear about between couples. I just hear about it from women. There are so many sex toys and sex related products that can cause women serious problems ! Yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, vaginal discomfort, allergic reactions, chemical burns... You name it. I recently replied to another blog about issues the author had been having at one point and how to remedy them. I'd like to share the information I shared with her to all of you. This will help everyone's sexy parts stay healthy and sexy longer. :) Now, the advice below is assuming anyone with a vagina that is experiencing chronic yeast infections has seen their doctor and ruled out other issues (PH imbalance caused by; diet, STI, hormone changes, drugs, etc). Also, please keep in mind a lot of yeast infections are not actually yeast infections, they can also be bacterial vaginosis. If you're unsure of the symptoms of each, see your doctor :) The main...

Hey, Bisexual guys, here's some validation.

From the New York Times; article here In an unusual scientific about-face, researchers at Northwestern University have found evidence that at least some men who identify themselves as bisexual are, in fact, sexually aroused by both women and men . The finding is not likely to surprise bisexuals, who have long asserted that attraction often is not limited to one sex. But for many years the question of bisexuality has bedeviled scientists. A widely publicized study published in 2005 , also by researchers at Northwestern, reported that “with respect to sexual arousal and attraction, it remains to be shown that male bisexuality exists.”  That conclusion outraged bisexual men and women, who said it appeared to support a stereotype of bisexual men as closeted homosexuals.  In the new study, published online in the journal Biological Psychology, the researchers relied on more stringent criteria for selecting participants. To improve their chances ...

I am not bisexual...

I'm beginning to get a feel for the annoyance and frustration that some people go through when trying to identify themselves on websites or in surveys. I'm not heterosexual, I'm not homosexual and I'm not bisexual.  I'm pansexual. Wikipedia defines pansexuality as:  the potential for sexual attractions, sexual desire , romantic love , or emotional attraction, towards people of all gender identities and biological sexes . [2] [3] Self-identified pansexuals may refer to themselves as gender-blind —that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others. [4] The Oxford English Dictionary writes that pansexuality "encompasses all kinds of sexuality; not limited or inhibited in sexual choice with regards to gender or activity." [5] The concept of pansexuality deliberately rejects the gender binary , the idea that there are only two genders, [6] as pansexual people are open to relations...