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DC Social January 2018 : Co-host consent discussion

Dark Odyssey Fusion 2014: Do it like an animal: pet play
Dark Odyssey Fusion 2014: Forming a relationship with pain 
BDSM Essentials Discussion Group: Gender Panel  April 26,2014 
Charm Fetish Fair 2014: Successful Polyamory
Charm City Fetish Fair 2014: Pet Play
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire 2014: Successful Polyamory: Having your Cake & Eating it too
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire 2014: Pet Play: Do it like an Animal
Tiny Terrors 2/1/14 : Pet Play: Do it like an Animal
BESS 1/15/14: Kink Etiquette: BDSM 101 for Beginners
Lochai's Puppy Play Class w/ One_In_A_Million 10/26/2013 : Pet Play: Do it like an Animal
Touch of Flavor 2013: Kink Etiquette: BDSM 101 for Beginners
BDSM Essentials Discussion Group 9/14/13 : Expecting the Inevitable: What to do when a Scene Goes Wrong
Fet Fest 2013: Pet Play: Do it like an Animal
College Night: Expecting the Inevitable: What to do when a Scene Goes Wrong
Charm City Fetish Fair 2013: Successful Polyamory: Having your Cake & Eating it too
Charm City Fetish Fair 2013: Pet Play Panel member 

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