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July 2018 Update

Hey friends,

Thanks for keeping up with this blog. I really appreciate it, especially after all the short stops and long breaks in-between postings. I've been spending a lot of time making in-person connections and working on a lot of custom artwork. So that is where most of my free time has gone, as such I've been writing less than I've been drawing. Usually it's the other way around (I blame my iPad, that thing is the absolute best).

I hope you still continue to check back, the itch to write comes on stronger and this blog will continue to be updated again. Most of my stuff is usually posted first to fetlife, and second back to here as an archive.

I've got at least one topic I really do want to write on, which is the strength in submission.

At least I've updated the favicon for the site and the logo, so there's something :)

Pins are on their way, pick one up at a Cigars Boots and Chocolate event I host.

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  1. Tommy2DFebruary 21, 2020 at 6:52 PM

    Hello there Ren...would you kindly email or post whatever your preferred mechanism is for receiving payment for custom business cards. I have checked each of your sites without any luck. I did however make a few purchases for items that caught my eye.

    If you use PayPal... simply provide me with your preferred amount. I would like to put down a deposit.

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  2. Tommy2DFebruary 21, 2020 at 6:53 PM

    I meant preferred account (email) but preferred amount is equally germane....

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