Big Coyote Energy

If Dan Savage has taught me anything, it's that people cheat and really it is something that we should all kind of get over. I understand, if you make a monogamous commitment you should keep it, but people are people and people make mistakes. People cheat for all kinds of reasons. Your spouse and you are in a sexless marriage and you still have a sex drive (which is not something you should be ashamed about). Your spouse has some sort of condition that makes sex painful, embarrassing or downright unfeasible. You have kids and you don't want to leave your significant other because other than the lack of sex, the marriage works. You no longer have intimacy in your relationship and you crave it, like any sane human being. I get it. I completely understand. I don't really think people that stray or cheat are terrible human beings. BUT.... I refuse to closet myself. Being your "behind closed doors" kind of girl is in absolutely no way appealing...

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 So... The following is a word for word IM conversation I had with someone on a dating site who was trying to speak to me for a few days, I didn't even correct my spelling mistakes, it's that wurdfurword.  Generally, I put up with a lot of shit, but when I get uncomfortable I say something. I say something because it is fully within my right to inform someone who is speaking to me that they are making me feel ill at ease.  Normal people would apologize and stop doing whatever it was that they were doing.  On the internet, people have a different idea of what an appropriate response is. Some guys seem to think the easiest way to get into a girls pants is to beat them like they were a baby seal. Some girls might enjoy the attitude, but I'm not one of them.  I'll reiterate.. I'm on dating websites to meet people and fuck them. The hard work has already been done! All they have to do is behave themselves. D thought I should include more personal stories (don't w...