Big Coyote Energy

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Even if you aren't looking, M0co, of M0cojute.com makes the best bondage rope ever.  Seriously. Daddy has a set of singed and oiled ropes that he has started using on me and i love them. HarshJudgement also ties with M0cojute. It's light, it's springy, it has wonderful energy and is great to tie with and be tied with. I rarely advertise for products, but M0co and SirRonC make an amazing product. Check it out at M0cojute.com .

What’s your favorite toy? Hands down? My Hitachi Magic Wand. That thing is an absolute life saver. I didn't have orgasms with partners (except Kamm after a year) without that thing. If we're talking BDSM specific toys, my collar. It is an amazing tool of control. I love when (people who have permission ) people grab my collar and use it control me, choke me or otherwise keep me under wraps.  My collar is from Ring Of Steel and i love it to pieces. I've worn it constantly since 2/10/12 when Kamm put it on me.

So... Fusion. That happened. It happened hard. And this is gonna be loooong and disjointed like most of my entries. Others seem to be more efficient in getting their feelings out. Reading their experiences, their scenes, their torment, their fears, it has an energy. I'm not a person for "energies" or "feelings" but something in me is tied to camp. I left part of myself there, and i found parts of myself that have been buried for a long, long time. Parts of me i believe only Kamm has ever known to exist. The parts of me that truly know fear, panic and exhaustion.  Fusion really was a good event for me, but there were parts i would prefer to never experience again, namely the storm. Friday ; On the way up to Ramblewood we stopped at a Tobacco outlet and a great dollar store to pick up some cigars for Kamm and a cooler for drinks. And i finally replaced my knife. Daddy and i arrived around 11am met Bettie_Rage at registration.  Friday it was over 90 degrees. N...

This is an important, albeit rarely mentioned issue that I hear about between couples. I just hear about it from women. There are so many sex toys and sex related products that can cause women serious problems ! Yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, vaginal discomfort, allergic reactions, chemical burns... You name it. I recently replied to another blog about issues the author had been having at one point and how to remedy them. I'd like to share the information I shared with her to all of you. This will help everyone's sexy parts stay healthy and sexy longer. :) Now, the advice below is assuming anyone with a vagina that is experiencing chronic yeast infections has seen their doctor and ruled out other issues (PH imbalance caused by; diet, STI, hormone changes, drugs, etc). Also, please keep in mind a lot of yeast infections are not actually yeast infections, they can also be bacterial vaginosis. If you're unsure of the symptoms of each, see your doctor :) The main...

Those of you who have met me in person know that I absolutely rave about my Hitachi Magic Wand.  I was nonorgasmic with partners until I got this thing.  They tend to be a little on the pricy side (50-75+) but I was browsing around on FetLife and found a website selling them for just under 40.00.  Shipping in the US is about 7 dollars so it really is a good deal if you're in the market for one.  You can find the website here . More real updates coming soon, D and I just had a fantastic couple of evenings.

So, on rapture da--I mean D's birthday (May 21st) we talked about what he wanted to do for his birthday, and anything he wanted (basically) was up on the table.  Since we were unable to find another girl for a FMF threesome (what we did for him last year for his birthday) he found a kink event at a club in one of the major metro cities near us that he wanted to go to. I'm confident when i want to be, but I'm incredibly nervous when I'm meeting new partners to getting into new sexual exploits.  We walked up to the door and I bumped into the trash can when D rang the doorbell, both made really loud noises which scared the shit out of me. At least he thought it was funny. We met a lot of wonderful people (but for the sake of anonymity I won't go into descriptions).  We were showed around to the different areas of the club and spoke to several different people about how they came to the club and how long they've been into the BDSM lifestyle. The club had sever...

I have a rediculous case of penis envy. Sure girls get all kinds of neat interesting sex toys, but we don't have crazy guys in Japan making kinky awesome sex toys for us, but the boys do ;) . Tenga is a fantastic company that caters to male masturbatory aides. And boy do they make the coolest things! To the right is the Tenga Egg "wavy." The tenga eggs are (technically sold as one use, but they can be reused) silicon "eggs" that have a texture or pattern in the inside. They stretch to fit over the penis and aid in making masturbation fun. Since I don't have a penis I'll have to go off of what D has told me. I got him a tenga egg for his birthday and he loves the thing.  I actually got him the wavy pattern pictured right and he enjoyed the feeling the toy gave him.  He managed to get a few weeks use out of it before it broke down.  They are pretty affordable (between 4-8 dollars USD depending on where you purchase them from).  I would suggest washing w...

So, I always thought that "I like sticking stuff in my pussy, so other girls must like that too."  Apparently, this is not the case. And it makes complete sense WHY. It is almost a sexual taboo for girls or women to masturbate. Its getting more "socially acceptable" for girls to touch their no-no-places, thank god. Boys tend to touch themselves and start manipulating their genitals from the time they are actually aware something is down there. Girls are supposed to be "pure" and "naive" and pretend they have a Barbie crotch until they get married and THEN they are expected to be like the girls in the porn movies and be downright explosive in bed. What in the ever loving fuck? No. The answer is no. I haven't thought of the question yet but the answer. Is. No. There is absolutely no reason why a woman should be afraid of her own vagina. You have it, its part of you, it doesn't look like your best friends' vagina. It has a scent,...

My hitachi and accessory collection.  I have owned one of these bad boys for months now, and all I can say is that this thing is worth its weight in gold.  I am one of those girls who find it almost impossible to achieve orgasm though vaginal penetration of any kind. It sucks, it sucks super hardcore, but all that changed after I got my magic wand. Now, this thing is marketed as a regular massager.. but the picture to the right is exactly what my kit came with (including the bullet vibe). Yeah, looks totally innocent doesn't it? Those dildo-like attachments work great for your feet.. or back.. Actually they would probably work better for other body parts (internal anal stimulation?) They didn't do anything for my vagina in terms of orgasm, but hey, feel free to try.  Let me know what you experience.  Pros: 1. It plugs into the wall.  There is no more of this "batteries running out at the crucial moment" thing. That tiny bullet vibe? Fuckin assed ou...

My feeldoe finally arrived (actually I got it last week but haven't had a a chance to use it until this weekend).  We had a couple of friends in the lifestyle come over, and the female half of the couple let me use it on her. It's interesting. Not as ...versatile as I imagined but it does work as a strapon. You need kegel muscles of steel to hold this thing in  a lot of positions, especially ones where you have your legs spread.  I can see this working a little better for use on men that I can on women.  I believe I read something about them actually making a harness for this particular dildo so I might investigate that. The pony end (inserted into the woman doing the penetrating) is pretty big. Bigger than it looks actually. But if your partners have been working with a lot of lube it may still pop out.  The good thing about the toy is that it has a lot of usable length so if you need to use a hand to hold it you still have a lot of the shaft left to use ...

I picked up one of these puppies, a feeldoe slim. I received the shipping notice today. I'll take a few pictures and write up a review after I get to take it out for a test drive... Several of my male partners have expressed interest in being pegged by a girl. Since its something I've kind of wanted to explore as well, I may as well oblige them. ;)