So, I always thought that "I like sticking stuff in my pussy, so other girls must like that too." Apparently, this is not the case. And it makes complete sense WHY. It is almost a sexual taboo for girls or women to masturbate. Its getting more "socially acceptable" for girls to touch their no-no-places, thank god. Boys tend to touch themselves and start manipulating their genitals from the time they are actually aware something is down there. Girls are supposed to be "pure" and "naive" and pretend they have a Barbie crotch until they get married and THEN they are expected to be like the girls in the porn movies and be downright explosive in bed. What in the ever loving fuck?
No. The answer is no. I haven't thought of the question yet but the answer. Is. No.
There is absolutely no reason why a woman should be afraid of her own vagina. You have it, its part of you, it doesn't look like your best friends' vagina. It has a scent, it has a lubricant, its got lips. Learn to love it. Pull a mirror between your legs and hang out on the floor and start moving stuff around and looking at it. I know I did as a kid. Since the vagina (all encompassing) is mostly an internal organ, that's the only way you're gonna see it. Refrain from searching "pussy" or "vagina" in google image search.. I did, and I couldn't find any "normal" looking vaginas; it's all girls/women trying to be sexy or having a bunch of jizz leaking out of their crotches. I just wanted a set of nice, anatomical shots to put at the top of the blog for the picture (to show how different vaginas can be), but no. So we'll have to settle for dildos etc, instead.
So now that the guys are no longer reading, I suppose I can wrap this up. Most vaginas are asymmetrical. If you're someone who likes symmetry (like me) and your vag doesn't match up, it's normal, and something that can be gotten over. The color and texture of the skin changes depending on your skin color, tone and other variables. I suppose I should also mention the clitoris.. That's kind of an important part of the female anatomy. And to break this informational forth wall.. I google image searched "clitoris" and OMG, anatomical images of vaginas! My pussy parade will be real at last!
Found some pictures of lady parts. Some of these lady parts might be airbrushed, some might have had surgery, some might have popped out a kid and some might be in porn. And if yours doesn't look like this? That's totally cool. Vaginas come in all shapes and sizes. Becoming confident about your genitals helps you become confident with yourself. It also helps to have a partner who is totally into worshiping said body part. Oh, and don't worry, I'll get to boobs soon.
Something I should note about the pussy parade; Most women do not pierce their actual clitoris if they are thinking of getting a genital piercing. This is a very rare, difficult and unusual piercing. Usually women get their clitoral hood pierced.
intersting perspective i appreciate your candor and honesty . i love open free conversations
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