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Birth Control and Swinging Part II - The Pill

[[ I'll start this off by saying I'm not a doctor , again, so if you have any questions about your specific sexual or overall health, your health care practitioner would be the person to as ('cause they know stuff about your dangly bits and whatnot) ]] The birth control pill is a chemical method of birth control (and department of redundancy department is redundant). As of right now it is being made for women only.  There are two types of pills available, estrogen and progesterone pills.  They do the same thing in two different ways.  When used correctly, the pill is considered over 99% effective.  They can't say 100% for anything because there is always a chance. The human body is a miraculous thing and weird shit happens all the time.  The pill only protects against pregnancy. It does not protect against any kind of STD or STI. How it works:   Birth control pills inhibit pregnancy in three ways. 1. When taken properly, the pill will keep ...

Bling bling on a ping ping

I love genital piercings! Love, love, love them. And now I want to give out some information on safe genital piercing and all that crap. This post covers basic info about genital piercings and standard piercings. Enjoy. Have the obligatory "I'm not a doctor" rhetoric and all that jazz. Although, doctors tend to be very poor references as far as body piercing goes. There is a lot of negative stigma associated with body piercing and doctors often give out poor advice in regards to healing piercings or dealing with possibly infected piercings. Find a qualified piercer with a brain and a clean studio.  If your piercer has never heard of the word "autoclave" then you should be running away as fast as your little legs will carry you.  An autoclave is an instrument that looks kind of like a 1foot cube steel pressure cooker that can completely sterilize instruments, jewelry and other interesting things. If you fail to see these things, or see something that makes ...

March Updates

February sucks and I'm glad it's over.  It has consistently been the worst month of the year for me for ever. Onto March! Coming up this month: The continuation of the birth control and swinging posts, our first swinging experience (D has agreed to help me write it). I've got a few other draft posts but honestly, they suck and I'm just moving info to more useful posts from them.  I plan to cover some common STD/STI's that are not very well known as well (including HPV especially). There is so much..non-info about that virus it's not even funny. I know someone is reading this thing. Blogger is cool enough to allow me to access stats about who is viewing from where, what OS they use, etc. Its pretty spiffy. That said, if you have a question or a topic you would like me to address toss me an email if you don't want to comment. eroticwetatomic@gmail.com :)

Birth Control and Swinging Part I - Condoms

I'll start this off by saying I'm not a doctor so if you have any questions about your specific sexual or overall health, your health care practitioner would be the person to as ('cause they know stuff about your dangly bits and whatnot). This is going to be a multi-installment segment in the blog. I tried doing this in one fell swoop and it got very very overwhelimg.  I've been on some form of contraception since I started having sex, and since then, I've found a lot of good information, and a whole lot of bad information.  These posts are to help weed out some of the bad stuff.   There is a lot of research that goes into these posts.  For this post I seem to have lost my resources,  I'll post the list as soon as I find it. So, a vast majority of swingers don't swing to get children sired by different fathers. There is a fetish for this, that fetish is not tied to swinging, it is very very separate. Like super extra double deluxe separate.  I b...

Birth Control and Swinging

I'll start this off by saying I'm not a doctor so if you have any questions about your specific sexual or overall health, your health care practitioner would be the person to as ('cause they know stuff about your dangly bits and whatnot). So, a vast majority of swingers don't swing to get children sired by different fathers. There is a fetish for this, that fetish is not tied to swinging, it is very very separate. Like super extra double deluxe separate.  I believe it has to do with a kind of cuckolding breeding fetish? I don't have that fetish so I can't tell ya. (Do you have that fetish? Tell me about it!) Birth control. There are many many different types. I will go over the pros and cons of each and how they relate to swinging and what they do to your body and protect you from. Read on! " Condoms may not protect from everything, but neither do seat belts - they are just the most practical and effective choice at hand to reasonably minimize ris...

Hitachi Magic Wand Review

My hitachi and accessory collection.  I have owned one of these bad boys for months now, and all I can say is that this thing is worth its weight in gold.  I am one of those girls who find it almost impossible to achieve orgasm though vaginal penetration of any kind. It sucks, it sucks super hardcore, but all that changed after I got my magic wand. Now, this thing is marketed as a regular massager.. but the picture to the right is exactly what my kit came with (including the bullet vibe). Yeah, looks totally innocent doesn't it? Those dildo-like attachments work great for your feet.. or back.. Actually they would probably work better for other body parts (internal anal stimulation?) They didn't do anything for my vagina in terms of orgasm, but hey, feel free to try.  Let me know what you experience.  Pros: 1. It plugs into the wall.  There is no more of this "batteries running out at the crucial moment" thing. That tiny bullet vibe? Fuckin assed ou...

Dangah Zone -- Avoiding Bad Situations

Screen shot from Archer Avoiding bad situations is paramount in swinging.  Chances are, if you're swinging, you're doing it to have a good time and not to create painful memories that will surface later on. This is my system. It is what has worked for me since I started meeting people on my own, and meeting couples and singles with D.  This system has been a really long time in the making.  Since I adopted it, I've had very very few bad experiences. Most of my meetings have been mediocre or good (or awesome).  These pointers may never work for you, or your style, but they do tend to keep me very safe. Read, watch, enjoy.  These are in no particular order, and most of these refer to meeting both couples and singles. A boring date isn't the end of the world, but a bad one could be disastrous. Get to know someone before meeting them in person:  I usually spend a few weeks (thats right, weeks) getting to know someone before meeting them in person....