Big Coyote Energy

So, i had a good Friday night with HarshJudgement and Kamm. Ended up with some predicament bondage, my neck is actually tied to my ankles. He pulled out the TENS unit after this. Good times ;) I got some rope even though we didn't go to Shibiarcon haha! Win.

I've had a lot of people, anyone from close friends to new acquaintances ask me about how Kamm and i manage a successful poly relationship. I can't help but smirk, at least on the inside because i don't consider myself successfully polyamours. SHOCKER. I know, read on, there is a good explanation. I consider myself functionally non monogamous. This is about my relationships with non monogamy, i will try to get Kamm to write something as well. This will have a lot of me/i in it. This is because the best way for me to educate others is to talk about my experiences, things i know inside and out. For most people, either you are open to non monogamy, or you aren't. People who are predisposed to non monogamy can make monogamous commitments and keep them, but they may not necessarily be ecstatic about it. It's about self control. This is not what this writing is about. Basic Points; Non monogamy really isn't *that* much more different than monogamy, it...

I wanted to do about sixteen other things, but it seems the blog is in much need of an update. May marks my one year "kinkaversary" or the one year anniversary of me getting into kink. It's come with a lot of growth and change and self reflection. I really can't imagine my life without BDSM anymore. It has really become an integral part of who i am, and i think before this, i had a lot of empty space in my life and as stupid as it sounds in my heart. It is exceptionally fulfilling for me to have the kind of life i have. My beloved Kamm, my three understanding and sexy play partners; FormerlyThor, CurtisMercury and Lynk. And HarshJudgement, wherever he fits in ( :p ). I have many facets; submissive, owned property, puppy, pony, bottom. I have many amazing mentors and friends; Ever, SaintNicky, Liberteeny, TheHammer, Perfectly_Bound, Tatsujin_Paris, M0co, Beemo, FelisLeo, Lochai, Subatomic17, Bettie_Rage, Atticant, Moose, Shangrilaaah, Silk. (If you weren't me...

One of my play partners, CurtisMercury,  knows i'm very particular about having my feet touched. My toes are a giant issue especially. He pulled out his 3mm jute just for some special fun. Kamm took this picture of CurtisMercury caning my feet after tying my toes up.  I actually like my feet caned. It's weird, but the sensation is so strange. The tops of my toes not so much... This is what happens when i'm good. Damnit!  My plan is to post some more "hey this actually happened" to me sort of things, along with some pictures. Not sure if i'll be blurring faces or anything yet but i'm not sure who really cares. Also, i won the raffle for the NCSF that BGSC was holding. So, now i've got my very own BGSC print! Getting it framed shortly.  Uh BGSC link might not be safe for work. I know such awesome people. :D

HarshJudgement was actually the first person to introduce me to these kind of clamps (pictured left). I wouldn't get anywhere near them before because a vast majority of clamps are not adjustable. This is fine if that is the kind of play you like, but for most people with pierced nipples things like clover clamp can pinch the jewelry and cause you all kinds of pain you weren't intending to experience. I've found that people commonly use tile clamps and other sorts of working hardware clamps as well . Pros : Adjustable - you can set exactly how much pressure how you  want being put on the nipple. Made out of stainless steel. Very easy to clean so you can use them with multiple partners. Few parts make them very sturdy and difficult to break. Well priced for what you get. Easy to use. Bottom can wear them for a long time. Cons :  When tightening, you can pinch yourself or whoever you are putting them on. Can be slightly difficult to get over piercings...

This is a hard thing to concentrate on while watching South Park. I was going to do client work, but i think i need one day where i don't have to do anything. So i'll blog. Hi :3 April 15th was Kamm and i's 5th anniversary. :) It has been such an amazing 5 years. Most of it is detailed here actually.  Saturday was Betty_Rage's birthday and we ended up at Six Flags with her, HarshJudgement and a few other people. I don't ...rides but i still had a good time. I went on the merry-go-round and on the bumper cars. And held everyones stuff when they were on the roller coasters. I've got my weird adreneline seeking behaviors, i'll leave the amusement parks to the professionals. Also, i got to hang out with Beemo (Nagabot here on blogger) EVERY DAY of the weekend! We're forever alone! Not a whole lot of kink, gotta switch it up every once in a while.

They arrived! :D Want a set of your own? See my Etsy shop .