Big Coyote Energy

I'll start this off by saying I'm not a doctor so if you have any questions about your specific sexual or overall health, your health care practitioner would be the person to as ('cause they know stuff about your dangly bits and whatnot). This is going to be a multi-installment segment in the blog. I tried doing this in one fell swoop and it got very very overwhelimg.  I've been on some form of contraception since I started having sex, and since then, I've found a lot of good information, and a whole lot of bad information.  These posts are to help weed out some of the bad stuff.   There is a lot of research that goes into these posts.  For this post I seem to have lost my resources,  I'll post the list as soon as I find it. So, a vast majority of swingers don't swing to get children sired by different fathers. There is a fetish for this, that fetish is not tied to swinging, it is very very separate. Like super extra double deluxe separate.  I b...

I'll start this off by saying I'm not a doctor so if you have any questions about your specific sexual or overall health, your health care practitioner would be the person to as ('cause they know stuff about your dangly bits and whatnot). So, a vast majority of swingers don't swing to get children sired by different fathers. There is a fetish for this, that fetish is not tied to swinging, it is very very separate. Like super extra double deluxe separate.  I believe it has to do with a kind of cuckolding breeding fetish? I don't have that fetish so I can't tell ya. (Do you have that fetish? Tell me about it!) Birth control. There are many many different types. I will go over the pros and cons of each and how they relate to swinging and what they do to your body and protect you from. Read on! " Condoms may not protect from everything, but neither do seat belts - they are just the most practical and effective choice at hand to reasonably minimize ris...

My hitachi and accessory collection.  I have owned one of these bad boys for months now, and all I can say is that this thing is worth its weight in gold.  I am one of those girls who find it almost impossible to achieve orgasm though vaginal penetration of any kind. It sucks, it sucks super hardcore, but all that changed after I got my magic wand. Now, this thing is marketed as a regular massager.. but the picture to the right is exactly what my kit came with (including the bullet vibe). Yeah, looks totally innocent doesn't it? Those dildo-like attachments work great for your feet.. or back.. Actually they would probably work better for other body parts (internal anal stimulation?) They didn't do anything for my vagina in terms of orgasm, but hey, feel free to try.  Let me know what you experience.  Pros: 1. It plugs into the wall.  There is no more of this "batteries running out at the crucial moment" thing. That tiny bullet vibe? Fuckin assed ou...

Screen shot from Archer Avoiding bad situations is paramount in swinging.  Chances are, if you're swinging, you're doing it to have a good time and not to create painful memories that will surface later on. This is my system. It is what has worked for me since I started meeting people on my own, and meeting couples and singles with D.  This system has been a really long time in the making.  Since I adopted it, I've had very very few bad experiences. Most of my meetings have been mediocre or good (or awesome).  These pointers may never work for you, or your style, but they do tend to keep me very safe. Read, watch, enjoy.  These are in no particular order, and most of these refer to meeting both couples and singles. A boring date isn't the end of the world, but a bad one could be disastrous. Get to know someone before meeting them in person:  I usually spend a few weeks (thats right, weeks) getting to know someone before meeting them in person....

Anonymous commenting has been turned on (or reaffirmed that it was on correctly).  If, on the off chance I start getting trolls I may disable it, but the comments are all on moderation anyway.  Working on a few more posts but once again reptiles have totally distracted me from the current task at hand.

I encountered this today.. I joined a website called SwingerZoneCentral to check out (it was highly recommended on the swingersboard so I made an account and filled out a profile.  You figure that this would end as how my usual new profile making ends--with lots of pictures of dicks, and lots of offered cell numbers for some quick blow jobs. Basically I get to lol around and delete a bunch of emails from guys who can't read. Among the dick pix and the cell numbers, I got a message from this guy. This guy takes the fucking cake. This is word for word the email I received: "Just a couple points cheater. You keep mentioning the age range you desire but nowhere in your proifle do you state your age, moron. That may wouldn't you think? Duh!!!!!!!!!! I am really tired of cheating sluts being on this swinger site. You are not a swinger. Swin-gers are either committed couples or singles who only swing within a certain group of people. Maybe you should get permission fr...

So.. OKC survey is on hold because having multiple accounts logging in from the same computer causes some kind of explosive catastrophe for the website.  Three is too many. Since I've lost access to the ok_survey account, that project is currently on hold. I found this blog linked from swingersforums;  accidental womanizer .  Go take a look at it. Its written from the prospective of a man. I enjoy reading his blog very much, perhaps you will too. I have some topics up for  new entries. I'll be starting with our first swinging experience... Oh boy. Its just that Archer is so distracting!