Big Coyote Energy

Someone linked this on fetlife and I started browsing through it and thought it was fantastic.   Since my goal for this blog is for it to be resource over anything else, I'm going to post their original text along with all the fun links. All the original article can be found here; SexGeek Blog .  I will go back through and add my commentary in a later entry but this was too good of information not to spread along. As usual, orange text is direct quote, the red and bold emphasis is from the original article. “Polyamory is grad school relationship. It’s for grownups only. If you can’t yet bring yourself to communicate honestly with your partner about everything that goes wrong….and don’t wait too long after it goes wrong, and don’t lay on guilt when you bring it up, then don’t do it. Stay monogamous. Polyamory is not the place to work out your neuroses, any more than running a marathon is the best way to exercise your recently-broken and healing ankle.” - Raven Kalde...

So, don't forget about the 3,333 kiriban. Free t-shirt! FREE. Email me the screen shot of the page counter at the bottom at 3,333 pageviews and the shirt is yours. Also, headey shavey is on for next Friday. I might even upload a picture of myself, cropped of course...

I'm beginning to get a feel for the annoyance and frustration that some people go through when trying to identify themselves on websites or in surveys. I'm not heterosexual, I'm not homosexual and I'm not bisexual.  I'm pansexual. Wikipedia defines pansexuality as:  the potential for sexual attractions, sexual desire , romantic love , or emotional attraction, towards people of all gender identities and biological sexes . [2] [3] Self-identified pansexuals may refer to themselves as gender-blind —that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others. [4] The Oxford English Dictionary writes that pansexuality "encompasses all kinds of sexuality; not limited or inhibited in sexual choice with regards to gender or activity." [5] The concept of pansexuality deliberately rejects the gender binary , the idea that there are only two genders, [6] as pansexual people are open to relations...

I wasn't going to do this. Not because I don't have thoughts about this, or things to say... But because this blog isn't necessarily the place for it.  I've scrapped those thoughts and will put this here. I won't update about it publicly, but it will be here for anyone who reads this.  I've spent far too much time in the last few days and years reading accounts, looking at information and expanding my knowledge of what physically happened on that day. September 11, 2001 I was in high school, outside Philadelphia Pennsylvania USA. I was 14, in 9th grade if I count back correctly.. I was in French class when I heard that something had happened. Completely unaware until sometime around 10am because I carted myself off to school at 7:15am. My french teacher refused to acknowledge anything had happened and went on with the class. Murmurs began to filtrate, something had happened in NY, NY, something bad.  At home room (after first period) there was an announcement ...

Ok.. Getting this shit FINALIZED. It is official, I'm going to bite the bullet and take off ALL my head hair (keeping my eyebrows, I like those). [ https://www.nationalbreastcancer.org/donate/ ] When I was 7, breast cancer claimed my biological mother (I'm alright, really, I have the worst most wonderful non-biological mother and get an absolute kick out of the fact that I am adopted by one parent). Breast cancer research has come so far in the 15 or so years, but it needs to go farther. The discovery of the BRCA1 and BRCA2 genes that are known to cause breast cancer was a huge revelation in how cancer is passed on genetically. I plan to get tested for both genes in the next year. September 1 was the anniversary of her death and when my Dad told me this I was really devastated. I think my kid brain really shut out a lot of the when and wheres of a lot of that part of my life. Now that I know and I remember I'll make sure I never forget. I'd like to do...

Hello new blogger UI, you sure are different. And hello September, you sure are different too. Big updates. I gave my notice at (stupid) job. Wanna know why? Cause I was given an offer from a fantastic company that I accepted. So now I have (Better) job and a few more straggly days for (stupid) job.  This is a big thing for me. I will be working from home and by the middle of September I will be official out of retail work. More updates and things... I do have some stuff that needs to be finished and archived.  Kamm's gonna have to get on some of it. Hurray! :D I guess I can try kiribaning this shit up again... What do we say lovlies? 3,333 pageview (screenshot to eroticwetatomic@gmail.com)  gets a t-shirt?

Someone on FetLife asked for an explanation of howDVP works. I know I already have a DVP entry in here, but here's an update. Also, holy hell. It's September! DVP stands for double vaginal penetration and it is FANTASTIC. If you've got a vagina and you're into penetration and totally get off on it, you will probably like DVP. I'm 5'6'', 150 pounds and I've been doing this for almost 3 years. I've done it with smaller than average dicks, average dicks and bigger than average dicks and all combinations. I've seen a 5'2'' 100 pound girl take two larger than average dicks and enjoy the hell out of it. Body size is not a limiting factor. Vaginas stretch, this is a fact. They also STRETCH BACK. You can go back to having pleasurable single partner sex within 2 minutes of DVP. Or at least I can, and so can everyone else I've ever spoken to about this. Don't worry. Vaginas in an aroused state are very flexible and ...