September Updates

Hello new blogger UI, you sure are different. And hello September, you sure are different too.

Big updates. I gave my notice at (stupid) job. Wanna know why? Cause I was given an offer from a fantastic company that I accepted. So now I have (Better) job and a few more straggly days for (stupid) job. This is a big thing for me. I will be working from home and by the middle of September I will be official out of retail work. More updates and things... I do have some stuff that needs to be finished and archived. Kamm's gonna have to get on some of it.

Hurray! :D

I guess I can try kiribaning this shit up again... What do we say lovlies? 3,333 pageview (screenshot to eroticwetatomic@gmail.com) gets a t-shirt?

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