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List your Kinks If I were to link my fetlife page here (which isn't going to happen, sorry readers), my fetish list goes on for miles.  I've got a lot of stuff that interests me and I'll copy and paste some of the list for you guys to look at. And remember, this is the short version of the list. " i love you, but i will hurt you." "slut" as a term of endearment, a firmly gripped neck a hand on the throat anticipation being mindfucked to the point of tears being the wolf to catch red riding hood being told i'm a good girl blindfolds collar and lead/leash consensual nonconsent control crying crying doesn 't mean you have to stop... double vaginal penetration fucked senseless till you can't make words fucking marines hitachi knife play knives can cause and solve all of my problems marine corps marine gangbang military men in uniform = meltdown mind fucks pony play petplay pushed to the point of tears sadism sens...

I thought I'd take this opportunity to wish those of you in the USA a Happy Thanksgiving, or happy pre-Thanksgiving. Please be safe and responsible, Thanksgiving is the most traveled holiday in the US and there are lots of drunk people.  Friends don't let friends drink and drive, right? :3 Kamm and I celebrated my birthday yesterday and today (since my birthday actually falls the day after Thanksgiving this year, and I hate celebrating it then because no one is ever around).  Kamm spent the last few months making a wonderful birthday weekend for me. There was an incredible co-topping knife threesome scene-thing between him and a friend of ours (whose wonderful life partner gave him the ok to do this).  I was blindfolded for most of it but there were many pokes and prods and bites and squeals. I love knives, so this was absolutely wonderful for me. The next day Kamm took me out and surprised me with a visit from my oldest male friend (OMG We've known each other for OVE...

The full article on MRI of the female orgasm, plus the video can be seen here .  The article and video are both safe for work. This article details how male birth control may just be around the corner. How fucking cool! Click here for the full article .

Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us. I identify as a submissive (currently) although I see no plans for it to change.  Ideally, I'd like to see myself topping (although not dominating) for certain types of play.  Mostly with knife play, needle play, stapling  and possibly some decorative cutting.  Blood doesn't bother me. I am a submissive. I refer to myself as a lifestyle submissive because I don't think I have a dominant bone in my entire body and I am ok with this. I get exactly what I want out of submitting to the right people. I'm quite outspoken and I describe myself as (borderline) obnoxious sometimes. It's in jest...mostly. I think I'm too headstrong and afraid to be a slave. Submitting still gives me the power to stop or change a scene or dynamic if something is pushing the "bad panic" bu...

The 30 Days of Kink meme is something I stumbled across (thanks @ ShortBassist ).  I'm going to partake and have begun setting up the entries.  I'll be posting all 30 days eventually.  It's 30 questions about kink and how you identify with it.  Prompted questions, which I love. Also, apparently the IRS is allowing transgender tax payers who have had sex reassignment surgery to deduct it from their taxes. Click here for full article .  Short, sweet, simple. Gotta love it.

I found this article some months ago and was recently reintroduced to it. My last entry had to do with women related things, let's focus on what goes on inside the brains of us very lovey ladies and woman-identified peoples.  The full original article can be found here on KateHarding.net and I recommend every single person that comes to my blog go over there and read it (or read excerpts here). Gentlemen. Thank you for reading. Let me start out by assuring you that I understand you are a good sort of person. You are kind to children and animals. You respect the elderly. You donate to charity. You tell jokes without laughing at your own punchlines. You respect women. You like women. In fact, you would really like to have a mutually respectful and loving sexual relationship with a woman. Unfortunately, you don’t yet know that woman—she isn’t working with you, nor have you been introduced through mutual friends or drawn to the same activities. So you must look fur...

I forgot it went from October to November, whoops. I've been working a lot on trying to get new content added so I can update throughout the "busy holiday season" and whatnot.  It's just hard to not post stuff immediately because it's so cool.  Been working like nuts lately to get stuff done for all my works, as I have several actual jobs. In theory I'll have even more fun stuff to update because I will be finally getting into pony play. I am very excited. I'm really excited, i saw the page view count hit 4,000 this morning which really tickled my fancy. I love knowing this information is getting around the Internets, filtrating through the systems. And here, take this . Oh, and don't forget, I'm @indeykink on twitter.

This is an important, albeit rarely mentioned issue that I hear about between couples. I just hear about it from women. There are so many sex toys and sex related products that can cause women serious problems ! Yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, vaginal discomfort, allergic reactions, chemical burns... You name it. I recently replied to another blog about issues the author had been having at one point and how to remedy them. I'd like to share the information I shared with her to all of you. This will help everyone's sexy parts stay healthy and sexy longer. :) Now, the advice below is assuming anyone with a vagina that is experiencing chronic yeast infections has seen their doctor and ruled out other issues (PH imbalance caused by; diet, STI, hormone changes, drugs, etc). Also, please keep in mind a lot of yeast infections are not actually yeast infections, they can also be bacterial vaginosis. If you're unsure of the symptoms of each, see your doctor :) The main...

This definition of BDSM comes from wikipedia ; BDSM is an erotic preference and a form of sexual expression involving the consensual use of restraint, intense sensory stimulation, and fantasy power role-play . The compound acronym BDSM is derived from the terms bondage and discipline (B&D or B/D), dominance and submission (D&S or D/s), and sadism and masochism (S&M or S/M). BDSM includes a wide spectrum of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships , and distinct subcultures . Activities and relationships within a BDSM context are characterized by the participants usually taking on complementary, but unequal roles, thus the idea of consent of both the partners becomes essential. Typically participants who are active – applying the activity or exercising control over others – are known as tops or dominants . Those participants who are recipients of the activities, or who are controlled by their partners are typically known as bottoms or submissives . In...

This will be geared more towards swingers out of default I suppose.  I don't know a whole lot of dedicated kinksters that go unicorn hunting but this will help anyone looking for their mythical bisexual single female. What is a unicorn? The term unicorn generally refers to a single bisexual female that is always down for a FMF (female/male/female) threesome. The reason these women have been assigned the name of a mystical creature is because very few of them exist and they are difficult to find.  Generally, "unicorns" will "love" or "be into" both halves of the couple equally and be a perfect 3 on the kinsey scale (or exactly bisexual). How do we find a unicorn? Finding a unicorn is difficult. The reason for this is simple supply and demand. There are less single bi females looking for couples than there are couples looking for SBF (single bi females).  Unicorns have the pick of the litter as far as sexual partner(s) go.  They exercise that choice...

Normally I don't do off topic posts here but this is sort of an emergency.  A friend of mine is trying to adopt the dog in this article, the dog is in Texas, my friend is in Maryland so obviously some transport is needed. He's not asking for drivers, he's just asking for some donations to help get Max from Texas to Maryland. I've already donated and am asking anyone with even a spare dollar to donate. If you can't afford to donate, please consider spreading the word to those who might be able to help. Click Here To Help Maximus https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=2211812028577&set=a.2071533761708.100538.1645807763&type=1&ref=nf