A Unicorn Hunting Guide

This will be geared more towards swingers out of default I suppose.  I don't know a whole lot of dedicated kinksters that go unicorn hunting but this will help anyone looking for their mythical bisexual single female.

What is a unicorn? The term unicorn generally refers to a single bisexual female that is always down for a FMF (female/male/female) threesome. The reason these women have been assigned the name of a mystical creature is because very few of them exist and they are difficult to find.  Generally, "unicorns" will "love" or "be into" both halves of the couple equally and be a perfect 3 on the kinsey scale (or exactly bisexual).


How do we find a unicorn? Finding a unicorn is difficult. The reason for this is simple supply and demand. There are less single bi females looking for couples than there are couples looking for SBF (single bi females).  Unicorns have the pick of the litter as far as sexual partner(s) go.  They exercise that choice all the time.

• Look at friends that both of you know, someone who would be comfortable with a threesome or two. 
• Look at professionals. Sex workers can be an excellent resource to consider because then have a much higher chance of fulfilling your fantasies.  
• Try bars, you never know what type of people will be there and sometimes they are interested in more than they let on.
• Feel free to try the singles or swingers websites, but you aren't likely to have much luck there.  
• Since single females get in free or at reduced cost to many parties and events, most of the time they will be at events. Go to local swingers events and parties. You could meet some great friends.
• Don't rule out couples you already know.  It's always fun to have a threesome for one couple by switching ladies in an out.  Think about swapping partners like that if that is something approved by all parties involved.

How should we treat the unicorn? With respect, like you would any partner. Try to avoid having unrealistic expectations about the partner you are looking for.  Setting up a mold made of the parameters you are looking for in a partner severely limits the amount of people that will fit in it (ie putting a square peg in a round hole).  Always ask her what she would like out of the encounter. Always be respectful and polite. If the three of you can't come to an agreement about what you are all looking for, than it is OK to part ways.

Always remember that the unicorn is a person, not just a tool to manipulate to fulfill your fantasies.  That is the number one complaint I've heard (and run into myself) about couples hunting single bi females.  Ask her what she would like to experience, and more importantly, ask her about what she will not do.


What should we do if we can't find a unicorn? Don't fret. Finding a unicorn is extremely difficult for the most part. Keep looking and keep an open mind. Consider finding a couple for a full swap or soft swap instead of just a singleton. Or you could always consider a single male.

If you are a couple new to threesomes, don't rule out multiple experiences with the same person. Sometimes it takes a few tries to get everyone's fantasies fulfilled.