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Looking for a place to start? Try some of these sites

I've either used or heard of all of these sites. Explications and success rates below. Listed in alphabetical order for.. fairness, yeah.

[Adult Friend Finder]
I can't suggest this website to anyone in my experience. I signed up for an account to get an accurate representation of what the site was like and if you are a free member, literally, every other button you push asks you to upgrade.  The website itself is terribly put together and the layout makes almost no sense. The site has several overlapping features and siging up for an AFF profile also gives you a profile of another type that I was never asked about when signing up. I put links to my Fetlife and SLS accounts and they froze my profile. Long review short - I'd take your time and your money elsewhere.

[Craigslist]
Very very hit or miss. Mostly miss for me, but once again if you know what to look for you'll do well enough. There is a lot of bots, a lot of spam and a lot of people with absolutely no reading comprehension. 

[Fetlife]
For those of you that are bored with same ol' "Let's meet for drinks" dating website..this one may be for you. Fetlife.com asks you to make a detailed profile about all of your nastiest and interesting fetishes. Why? Well to make you more appealing to those who have the same fetishes of course! This site advertises fetishes I am quite sure I have never heard of, and contains some of the most interesting and entertaining profiles that I have seen in the online dating world. Definitely the way to go if you are not of the "vanilla" lifestyle. Got dirty pics of you in a diaper being bull whipped by Octo-mom? POST EM!

[okCupid]
OKC is the beesknees of online dating, in my opinion. It is poly/open/swinger friendly, but no pics of diapers and Octo-moms. This is a clean, free, and easy to navigate site for all ages (over 18) and backgrounds. Used by hundreds of thousands across the country, and has a neat, easy to use, IM feature for all users. Although, us hot girls may want to option to block all IM's..new hotties are like a wide-eyed bunny being dropped into a tank of piranhas. I personally don't mind braving the IM's from all the random jackasses, but it is nice to have the option of blocking all IMs. If you can find the occational gem buried in the website, there are some really amazing people to be discovered.

[Swingers Board Forums]
One of the best sites I've found for information. Super single friendly and with so many threads and options you'll find the answers you're looking for. 

[Swing Life Style]
Probably the site I've had the most success with. It has a decent free account option, but pay options for one month, 3 months or even the lifetime membership. This site definitely does not make it easy for single men. Free single men cannot send emails or view nude pics. But they may make asses out of themselves in the chat rooms. Single females and couples can send up to 5 emails a day, with a free account.  No free accounts can view private pictures or x-rated pictures. Paid accounts have unlimited access to messages, forums and any open pictures.
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